Victim-Blaming – Rape, a Memoir by zuhal

We’re not asking the right questions…

Almost 1/3 of Moms Say They’ve Gone YEARS without Sex

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby and a sexless marriage…

According to a Family Circle survey, almost a third of moms say that they’ve gone a few years without having sex. We speak to experts and parents about how babies are affecting the bedroom.

Why Many Couples Go Years without Having Sex

http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/archive/segment/why-many-couples-go-years-without-having-sex/53150ea378c90a1a64000763?cn=tbla

Bikinis Make Men See Women as Objects, Brain Scans Confirm

Sexy women in bikinis really do inspire some men to see them as objects, according to a new study of male neurology.

Brain scans revealed that when men are shown pictures of scantily clad women, the region of the brain associated with tool use lights up.

Men were also more likely to associate images of sexualized women with first-person action verbs such as “I push, I grasp, I handle,” said lead researcher Susan Fiske, a psychologist at Princeton University.

And in a “shocking” finding, Fiske noted, some of the men studied showed no activity in the part of the brain that usually responds when a person ponders another’s intentions.

This means that these men see women “as sexually inviting, but they are not thinking about their minds,” Fiske said. “The lack of activation in this social cognition area is really odd, because it hardly ever happens.”

Read more at http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2009/02/090216-bikinis-women-men-objects.html

Boys Are Losing Virginity Later- and you’ll never guess why…

One main reason for the increase in the age of virginity loss among boys is romance.  Even in the face of cultural narratives that tell boys that all they want is sex, they tell personal stories of love and emotional connection.

Never-married males between aged 15-19 have essentially the same probability of being a virgin as females.

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